So, I just put up a button today which links to Habitat for Humanity. (I know it’s rough but, hey, I made it
myself!) It replaces the one that I had
for The Liberal Blogosphere/Red Cross help site. And here’s why I felt a need for change:

I had been reading recently about some abuses within
the Red Cross. I’m not saying that these
accusations are true. Neither am I
saying that they are not. The fact is
that there is no way that I could know the inner workings of a major

But just reading these got me thinking about what the
gulf coast needs NOW. And from my
perspective, it is no longer a matter of relief so much as recovery and
rebuilding. There is a long road to
getting the area back to some sort of semblance of normalcy. I think that this is going to be more
difficult if we get stuck in the first step of the process.

And I know how hard it is to stop looking at
the photos from the beginning of the month. Trust me, I know! I got so damn
angry, and it has been a challenge to tear myself away from that. Now, I want to know what we need to do as a
national community to help our neighbors…in the long run.

There are governmental agencies which are working on
recovery. But so very much cannot be
recovered. It has to be rebuilt. I feel that this is where Habitat for Humanity comes
in. They have a great history when
dealing with disasters.

My husband’s family at large is looking at replacing
our gift exchange this Christmas with a family photo swap, along with a
donation to some charity which is directly involved with Katrina
survivors. After all, how many of us are
not constantly trying to rid ourselves of household clutter? I know that I don’t need any more knick
knacks. But there are so many people out there who just need the basics.

So, there you go. That’s my $0.02 for today.

(And, here, you probably thought all I cared about was



sluggish and sick


Sorry, I haven’t posted for the past couple of days,
but we’re all sick around here. Yuck.

Not only does this mess with the body, but it also
befuddles the mind. I’m just too foggy
headed to think.

I hope that all of you out there in blogland are feeling
better than we.

In the meantime here’s a picture of our sick Cutiepie
in her “new” hand me down PJs and galoshes from her friend Elora. (Thank you, Jenn, for the wonderful box of

Speaking of Kajsa, she looked down at her PB&J
sandwich today, and exclaimed, “Red – in there.” I guess she’d never noticed the jelly before.

Would you believe it?


Thinking fast, Smart says, "At the moment, seven Coast
Guard cutters are converging on us. Would you believe it?"

Mr. Big: I find that hard to believe.

Smart: Hmmm would you believe six?

Mr. Big: I don’t think so.

Smart: How about two cops in a rowboat?

My dreams of growing up to be Agent 99, and work with the
bumbling secret agent Maxwell Smart to destroy KAOS, died today.

Emmy Award-winning comic-actor, Don Adams, has finished his
final mission.

He was 82.

"Sorry about that"

What tha?


For all of us out there who just can’t wait for Halloween,
they’ve finally arrived.
What, you may
ask, has arrived?

Well, Jones’
newest line of holiday sodas, of course.

They come in four toadally scary new flavors. I think my favorite may be ‘Strawberry S’lime.” But then again, that’s about as
gastronomically desirable as your likely to find. As those lovely reviewers over at
x-entertainment put it:

You can’t purchase the four flavors in a set; instead, each
is only available in its own four-pack, with half-sized cans that seem
perfectly generous to anyone who’s ever had the overwhelming pleasure of
drinking caramel apple soda.

While you ponder this you can find out what flavor of Jones
soda you are.  Here’s my result:

You Are Green Bean Casserole Soda

Vegetarians taste better!

What Jones

Soda Are You?

Like I didn’t already know that.

Happy mass marketing Halloween Everybody!

Donation Information


donation & transplantation - about donation -> living donation

For all of you who have expressed a desire to know what it would take to help out Kajsa, I offer the following.  It is a long post.  But I figured it would be better to get it all out of the way now.  If any one has any more specific questions, please just let me know.

In addition to deceased (person declared brain dead) donor
transplants, patients may also receive organs from living donors.
Living donation offers an alternative for individuals awaiting
transplantation and increases the existing organ supply. Create a data report to compare living and deceased donor data *

Facts *
Organ Types *
Qualifications for Living Donors *
About the Surgical Procedure of Living Kidney Donation *
Risks *
Positive Aspects *
Costs *

Facts About Living Donation


The first successful living donor transplant
was performed between 23-year-old identical twins in 1954. Doctor
Joseph E. Murray at Peter Bent Brigham Hospital in Boston, MA,
transplanted a healthy kidney from Ronald Herrick into his twin
brother, Richard, who had chronic kidney failure. Richard Herrick went
on to live an active, normal life, dying eight years later from causes
unrelated to the transplant.

Since that time, thousands of patients have received successful
transplants from living donors, which are handled by the center or
hospital doing the transplant. For more information, contact your local
organ procurement organization (OPO) or transplant program. To find
your region’s OPO or a local transplant program, use the Member Directory.

Organ Types for Living Donation

Living donor transplants are a viable alternative for patients in
need of new organs. Many different types of organs can be delivered by
living donors, including:

  • kidney

    This is the most frequent type of living organ donation. For the donor,
    there is little risk in living with one kidney because the remaining
    kidney compensates to do the work of both kidneys.

  • liver

    Individuals can donate segments of the liver, which has the ability to
    regenerate the segment that was donated and regain full function.

  • lung

    Individuals can also donate a portion of the pancreas. Like the lung,
    the pancreas does not regenerate, but donors usually have no problems
    with reduced function.

  • pancreas

    Individuals can also donate a portion of the pancreas. Like the lung,
    the pancreas does not regenerate, but donors usually have no problems
    with reduced function.

  • intestine

    Although very rare, it is possible to donate a portion of your intestine.

  • heart

    A domino transplant makes some heart-lung recipients living heart
    donors. When a patient receives a heart-lung "bloc" from a deceased
    donor, his or her healthy heart may be given to an individual waiting
    for a heart transplant. This procedure is used when physicians
    determine that the deceased donor lungs will function best if they are
    used in conjunction with the deceased donor heart.

Qualifications for Living Donors

In order to qualify as a living donor, an individual must be
physically fit, in good general health, and free from high blood
pressure, diabetes, cancer, kidney disease, and heart disease.
Individuals considered for living donation are usually between 18-60
years of age. Gender and race are not factors in determining a
successful match.

The living donor must first undergo a blood test to determine blood type compatibility with the recipient.

Blood Type Compatibility Chart

Recipient’s Blood Type Donor’s Blood Type
A        A or O
B        B or O
AB        A,B, AB or O

If the donor and recipient have compatible blood types, the donor
undergoes a medical history review and a complete physical examination.
The following tests may be performed:

  • Tissue Typing: the donor’s blood is drawn for tissue typing of the white blood cells.
  • Crossmatching: a blood test is done before
    the transplant to see if the potential recipient will react to the
    donor organ. If the crossmatch is "positive," then the donor and
    patient are incompatible. If the crossmatch is "negative," then the
    transplant may proceed. Crossmatching is routinely performed for kidney
    and pancreas transplants.
  • Antibody Screen: an antibody is a protein
    substance made by the body’s immune system in response to an antigen (a
    foreign substance; for example, a transplanted organ, blood
    transfusion, virus, or pregnancy). Because the antibodies attack the
    transplanted organ, the antibody screen tests for panel reactive
    antibody (PRA). The white blood cells of the donor and the serum of the
    recipient are mixed to see if there are antibodies in the recipient
    that react with the antigens of the donor.
  • Urine Tests: In the case of a kidney donation, urine samples are collected for 24 hours to assess the donor’s kidney function.
  • X-rays: A chest X-ray and an electrocardiogram (EKG) are performed to screen the donor for heart and lung disease.
  • Arteriogram: This final set of tests involves
    injecting a liquid that is visible under X-ray into the blood vessels
    to view the organ to be donated. This procedure is usually done on an
    outpatient basis, but in some cases it may require an overnight
    hospital stay.
  • Psychiatric and/or psychological evaluation: The donor and the recipient may undergo a psychiatric and/or psychological evaluation.

The decision to become a living donor is a voluntary one, and the
donor may change his or her mind at any time during the process. The
donor’s decision and reasons are kept confidential.

About the Surgical Procedure of Living Kidney Donation

While procedures may differ for the living donation of organs such
as liver or lung, the most common living donor procedure involves the
kidney. Traditionally for living kidney donation, the donor is admitted
to the transplant hospital the day before the operation. The
anesthesiologist and the transplant team meet with the donor to explain
the surgical procedure. Laboratory tests, blood work, a chest X-ray,
and an EKG may be performed again to verify the donor’s health status.
If the operation is to be performed the next morning, the donor is
asked not to eat or drink anything after midnight.

Shortly before the operation, an intravenous line is connected to a
vein in the donor’s arm so that medications and fluid can be given
during the operation. A catheter will also be inserted to drain urine
from the bladder. The recipient’s transplant operation follows the
donor’s operation.

The donor may spend several hours in the recovery room after the
operation. Immediately after the operation, a nurse will ask the donor
to turn, cough and breathe deeply to help clear the lungs of
secretions. This will be repeated every two hours to prevent pneumonia
or other respiratory difficulties associated with the use of anesthesia
during the operation.  Several hours after the operation, the donor is
encouraged to get out of bed and walk around. The I.V. and catheter may
remain in place for a few days. The donor may begin eating and drinking
again after recovery of bowel function. After five to eight days, the
donor may return home. A post-operative check-up follows in two to four
weeks. The donor is encouraged not to attempt any heavy lifting or
rough contact sports until at least six weeks after the operation. If
no complications arise, the donor may return to work four weeks after

There is an alternate procedure used to recover a kidney from a
living donor. The more traditional procedure (described above) involves
a surgical incision around the donor’s lower back and side. In recent
years, laparoscopy has been used in some cases to recover kidneys from
the donor’s abdomen. (In laparoscopy, surgical instruments are inserted
into the body through a series of small incisions.) While laparoscopy
involves a smaller incision and a potentially shorter recovery time for
the donor, the transplant team must decide which procedure will offer
the fewest potential risks and the greatest likelihood for success for
the individual operation.

Risks Involved in Living Donation

All patients experience some pain and discomfort after an operation.
And as with any major operation, there are risks involved. It is
possible for kidney donors to develop infections or bleeding and when a
portion of the liver or pancreas is donated, the liver or spleen may be

Living donation may also have long-term risks that may not be
apparent in the short term. It is therefore important that the benefits
to both donor and recipient outweigh the risks associated with the
donation and transplantation of the living donor organ. In addition to
potential individual health concerns, it is possible for negative
psychological consequences to result from living donation. Living
donors may feel pressured by their families into donating an organ and
guilty if they are reluctant to go through with the procedure. Feelings
of resentment may also occur if the recipient rejects the donated
organ. Living donors must be made aware of the physical and
psychological risks involved before they consent to donate an organ.
They should discuss their feelings, questions and concerns with a
transplant professional and/or social worker.

Positive Aspects of Living Donation

Living donation has several advantages:

  • Living donation eliminates the recipient’s need for placement
    on the national waiting list. Transplant surgery can be scheduled at a
    mutually-agreed upon time rather than performed as an emergency
    operation. Because the operation can be scheduled in advance, the
    recipient may begin taking immunosuppressant drugs two days before the
    operation. This decreases the risk of organ rejection.
  • Transplants from living donors are often more successful,
    because there is a better tissue match between the living donor and the
    recipient. This higher rate of compatibility also decreases the risk of
    organ rejection.
  • Perhaps the most important aspect of living donation is the
    psychological benefit. The recipient can experience positive feelings
    knowing that the gift came from a loved one or a caring stranger. The
    donor experiences the satisfaction of knowing that he or she has
    contributed to the improved health of the recipient.

Costs Related to Living Donation

Health insurance coverage varies for living donation. If the
recipient is covered by a private insurance plan, most insurance
companies pay 100 percent of the donor’s expenses. If the recipient is
covered by Medicare’s end-stage renal disease program, Medicare Part A
pays all of the donor’s medical expenses, including preliminary
testing, the transplant operation, and post-operative recovery costs.
Medicare Part B pays for physician services during the hospital stay.
Medicare covers follow-up care if complications arise following the

Bibliography bibliography

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Big Fat Weenie

PsychoI read this review of  The
Ring Two
. As will happen, this got me to
thinking about my unusual relationship with horror movies.

I DO NOT watch scary movies.


End of story.

I simply cannot handle it. I lie in bed for hours listening to my
house. I still can’t take a shower if no
one else is home…and heaven forbid it’s night time. I had just gotten over the Psycho
shower thing, when along came The X Files and, I don’t know how many creepy things came crawling out
of showers, and washing machines and stuff. About as big a liquid holding appliance as I can now deal with is a
blender. And that’s only because they
make daiquiris. Then I was starting to
relax from that, when I saw the commercial previews of some new horror flick, where
that hand comes out of that girl’s hair in the shower. I’m a total goner again.

I didn’t inherit this trait. I know this because one of my mother’s
favorite things, if my father is away, is to turn off all the lights and watch
the entire Aliens quadrilogy. I, personally think she’s nuts.

I didn’t pass it along, either.

Maya (13 years old) and Chris watch these movies when
I’m gone. They actually set up scary
movie dates. They’ll go out while I stay
home with Kajsa. Upon their arrival
home, I make them tell me all about the plot…especially the ending, to demystify
the commercials.  That way, I’m not as
afraid of them anymore.

Movies that have left me irrationally terrified

  • Signs (when the
    alien walks across the space as they are all looking out)
  • Contact (good
    movie, but the thumping makes me leave the room)

I don’t know why I am this way. But I always have been. I remember so clearly the very first time I
ever saw a commercial for Alien. That night all I could see when I closed my
eyes, was that egg sitting there with the greenish glow on it.

Is it weird that I’m now CRAVING popcorn?